It's 20th Jan today and my birthday is on 6th Feb.....Worst thing about it is count down of age 30 will start.....i feel like 18 was the best age to be in...you get you license, you can vote, people stop treating you like a kid, 30 would be the worst age to get in ....especially when you don't have a girl friend and you are unmarried. No one leaves a chance to irritate me asking you are nearing 30 and yet unmarried???.....right from friends, relatives, colleageus, managers. There's a inner person within me shouting "hello give me a break, stop irritating me, leave me alone". Now i know why salman khan gets so irritated when someone asks him about his marriage....haha...he is at a total different level and his marriage has become a national issue....My roomies with whom i stay at my mumbai home, most of them are north indians and in north india marriages happen by 25-26 max....so even they keep on asking boss when is your marriage?....Ok some of common answers i have given once this marriage question being asked to me are "Goa ke log aaram se shaadi karte hai", "I want to enjoy life for more 2 years"( i have friends asking me on this, Isn't that same thing what you said 2 years back???...hahaha), "find a decent girl for me to marry "(This one closes most of the mouth's :P .....Although some people just ask for the sake of asking what are your criterias of a decent girl), One more thing also saves me by diverting attention to someone else who is elder than me and not married :P...
Frankly speaking i was not so conscious about marriage, but with these growing pressure i have actually started looking out for a girl to whom i can get married to....created a ID on shaadi.com, asked a few friends to look out for a girl and let me know if they come across anyone decent. Mom dad also says sometimes we are searching a decent girl for you huh...i feel they try to make me feel secure and also let me know that they have not forgotten about my marriage and future....and i am like ok mom dad i know that but is it necessary to say it again and again....next time anyone asks me about my marriage i would like to see my face in mirror....hahaha...my elder bro also says start searching now itself don't delay more, you will get someone or other by a year's time....I also remember by bhabhi's dialogue "dude you have crossed the age where in u make gf's, at your age people are father of 1 or 2 kids :(" that was rude mumma...
One funny incident which i can remember is one girl asking me what's your age....and i say 29 running heading towards 30.....and next question she asks so aun't you married???.....and she said it in such a way as if i had committed a crime...and the girl does not stop here....next question she asks what's your salary.....i was like madam it's not a good thing to ask someone's salary...but the girl still insists and i told her a rough figure 7.5 and immediately she says "fek mat"....hahaha....i said i am senior engineer in IBM so i might be capable of earning that much...itna toh barosa kar...then finally she says toh fir problem kidhar hai??? shaadi kyun nahi hui teri???....thank god the girl stopped here or i thought her next questions would be "kuch problem toh nahi hai na tere main??? or hope you are not gay???.....lol
Having said all these things i feel choosing life partner is one of the toughest decision of life, i feel more tougher then choosing type of career you want to get in :D :D :D.....
Frankly speaking i was not so conscious about marriage, but with these growing pressure i have actually started looking out for a girl to whom i can get married to....created a ID on shaadi.com, asked a few friends to look out for a girl and let me know if they come across anyone decent. Mom dad also says sometimes we are searching a decent girl for you huh...i feel they try to make me feel secure and also let me know that they have not forgotten about my marriage and future....and i am like ok mom dad i know that but is it necessary to say it again and again....next time anyone asks me about my marriage i would like to see my face in mirror....hahaha...my elder bro also says start searching now itself don't delay more, you will get someone or other by a year's time....I also remember by bhabhi's dialogue "dude you have crossed the age where in u make gf's, at your age people are father of 1 or 2 kids :(" that was rude mumma...
One funny incident which i can remember is one girl asking me what's your age....and i say 29 running heading towards 30.....and next question she asks so aun't you married???.....and she said it in such a way as if i had committed a crime...and the girl does not stop here....next question she asks what's your salary.....i was like madam it's not a good thing to ask someone's salary...but the girl still insists and i told her a rough figure 7.5 and immediately she says "fek mat"....hahaha....i said i am senior engineer in IBM so i might be capable of earning that much...itna toh barosa kar...then finally she says toh fir problem kidhar hai??? shaadi kyun nahi hui teri???....thank god the girl stopped here or i thought her next questions would be "kuch problem toh nahi hai na tere main??? or hope you are not gay???.....lol
Having said all these things i feel choosing life partner is one of the toughest decision of life, i feel more tougher then choosing type of career you want to get in :D :D :D.....
